Lesson 3 of 5

Working in Teams

Alone you can go fast. Together you can go far.

Why Teams Beat Individuals

It might seem faster to do things yourself. No meetings, no disagreements, no waiting for others. And for simple tasks, that is often true.

But for anything complex or creative, teams almost always win. Here is why:

  • Diverse skills: No one is good at everything. A team combines different strengths.
  • More ideas: Different perspectives see problems differently. Five minds find solutions one mind would miss.
  • Catching mistakes: Others spot errors you cannot see because you are too close to your own work.
  • Support and motivation: When you want to give up, others keep you going. When they struggle, you lift them.
  • Bigger capacity: A team can simply do more than one person, once coordination costs are covered.

This is why every major achievement in history—building temples, creating companies, sending rockets to space—has been a team effort. Individual genius matters, but it takes a team to make the genius real.

The Roles People Play in Teams

Not everyone in a team does the same thing. People naturally fall into different roles based on their strengths and personalities:

The Ideas Person

Comes up with creative solutions and new approaches. Full of energy at the start. May lose interest in details and follow-through.

The Organiser

Turns ideas into plans. Keeps track of tasks and deadlines. Makes sure nothing falls through the cracks. May seem controlling.

The Doer

Gets things done. Reliable and hardworking. Prefers action to endless discussion. May rush ahead without enough planning.

The Questioner

Asks "what if it does not work?" and spots potential problems. Prevents disasters. May seem negative or slowing things down.

The Connector

Keeps the team happy. Notices when someone is struggling or left out. Smooths conflicts. The glue that holds teams together.

A strong team needs all these roles. The problem is when a team has too many of one type and none of another. Five ideas people will generate endless ideas but finish nothing. Five doers will work hard but may run in the wrong direction.

The Quiet Person Might Have the Best Idea

In most group discussions, a few people talk a lot and others stay quiet. It is easy to assume the talkers have the best ideas. Often, they do not.

Quiet people are often thinking deeply while others are performing. They are processing, analysing, considering. When they finally speak, they often say something everyone else missed.

The problem is they may never speak up if:

  • The loud voices dominate and leave no space
  • They feel their idea is not worth mentioning
  • They are still thinking and the group has moved on
  • They are nervous about speaking in groups

Good teams actively create space for quieter voices: "Priya, we have not heard from you yet. What do you think?" Some of the best ideas you will ever hear come from asking quiet people directly.

How to Contribute Without Dominating

If you are someone who talks a lot, that is not bad. Your ideas matter. But the best team players learn to balance contribution with space for others:

  • Count before speaking: Try to let two or three others speak between your contributions.
  • Build on others: Instead of new ideas, try "I like what Rahul said, and we could also..."
  • Ask, do not tell: "What if we tried...?" invites discussion. "We should..." closes it.
  • Draw others out: "What does everyone else think?" or "Anita, you have experience with this..."
  • Listen actively: Show you heard others by referring to their ideas later.

If you are naturally quiet, the same principles work in reverse: push yourself to share one idea per meeting. Your thoughts have value. The team needs them.

Making Group Projects Actually Work

We have all had terrible experiences with group projects: one person does all the work, or nothing gets done until the last minute, or people fight constantly. Here is how to avoid that:

  • Start with clarity: What exactly are we trying to achieve? Make sure everyone agrees.
  • Divide tasks based on strengths: Who is good at what? Match tasks to people. Let the writer write, let the presenter present.
  • Set mini-deadlines: Do not just have one final deadline. Break the project into checkpoints.
  • Check in regularly: A quick daily or weekly update catches problems before they become disasters.
  • Address problems early: If someone is not contributing, talk to them kindly but directly. Do not let resentment build.
  • Celebrate wins together: When things go well, share the credit. This builds trust for next time.

The skills you learn in school group projects are exactly the skills you will need in every job. Learning to work in teams now pays off for your entire life.

Ancient Wisdom: Thirukkural on Friendship

Thiruvalluvar dedicated an entire chapter to "நட்பு" (friendship), understanding that relationships are the foundation of all success:

"உடுக்கை இழந்தவன் கைபோல ஆங்கே
இடுக்கண் களைவதாம் நட்பு."

Meaning: "True friendship is like the hand that immediately covers when the garment slips—it helps in times of trouble without being asked." (Kural 788)

This is what great teams are built on: people who help each other instinctively, who notice when someone is struggling and step in without waiting to be asked. Such bonds are not built overnight, but through consistent kindness and reliability.

Key Takeaways

  • Teams beat individuals for complex work—diverse skills and perspectives find better solutions
  • Different people play different roles—a strong team needs ideas, organisation, action, questioning, and connection
  • Quiet people often have the best ideas—actively create space for them to share
  • Contribute without dominating—balance sharing your ideas with drawing out others
  • Make group projects work with clear goals, divided tasks, regular check-ins, and early problem-solving

Reflection Question

Think about a team you have been part of—at school, in sports, in a game, or with friends. What role did you naturally play? What role was missing from the team? How might the team have worked better?

There is no right answer. The point is to start noticing team dynamics around you.